I'll never forget my grandpa's #1 marriage advice that he shared with Thomas & I before
his death in May 2010. Grandpa told us to make each other feel special one day/night a week. He said it didn't matter exactly how but he said, "Even when Grandma & I were broke and had 3 children under the age of 5 running around, we would have date night once a week. We may not be able to leave the house, but when the children went to sleep, we could share in dessert or eat a late dinner… all that mattered was that it was our night with each other."
My grandparents were married 62 years before grandpa's death so he knew what he was talking about.
Thomas & I took my grandpa's advice to heart and have done our best to keep the romance and love alive in our marriage. Whether it's movie night and homemade pizza or going all out with a fancy dinner out, we attempt date night once a week.
Here's some ideas that are sure to please, bring you closer, make you laugh & won't break the bank:
Walk around a local park or garden
Special drinks at a local coffee shop
Window shopping
Drinks & Shared a meal at a fun restaurant (Keep it under $30, including tip)
Dancing (I have yet to get Thomas to do this one)
Enjoy a free concert (google "free concerts in
name of city" you'll be shocked at how many you find)
Chocolate Tasting (would be great in a group of other couples)
Discover a new band
Try a new exotic drink at a fancy bar
Spend an hour at Babies R Us or another baby store & plan for your future children
Get dressed up and eat inside at a fast food restaurant
Attend a play at the local high school (even if it's not the best acting, you'll still enjoy yourselves)
Pack a picnic of wine & cheese and go stargazing
Take silly pictures on your webcam
TV series marathon (we did this with Friends & laughed for hours)
1/2 price shakes after 8pm at Sonic
Pinterest date! - You each pick something new to try from Pinterest (craft or food work best) and then try them together.
Walmart Bingo
Disney movie night - each pick your favorite Disney movie & rent from the library
Do you have any fun, unique & frugal date ideas to share?
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times and always with the same person."
~Mignon McLaughlin